We had our 20 week ultrasound yesterday afternoon; our little one was moving so much that it was quite difficult for the Tech to get very many pictures of the little one (No 3Ds this time). We really wanted to find out what the sex of this baby is, mostly for planning and organizing purposes and so we can actually start making a list of names. This little one wasn't going to show us, but after a little poke from the Tech, it moved just right - it's a boy!! So now the boys will out number the girls in this house, but I think Saray and I can hold our own - ha, ha! As far as names go, we don't have any yet, although lots of people have given us input in that department. Just to name a few that people have suggested: Shadrack, Ricco, Gerald...umm yeah, thank you, but I think we'll have to decide on a name by ourselves - no offense to those that have offered names.
The only concern regarding this pregnancy is that my placenta is either over or near my cervix (placenta pervia). We're praying that it will move (this is very possible) as the baby grows and that it will not be an issue. We'd appreciate your prayers regarding this. But over all, the baby is doing great, he's right on schedule with his growth (his growth even lined up the due date of May 19th).
All of a sudden, Christmas is over. All the planning, wrapping and baking has come to an end and the Christmas tree and decorations are put away; it's all a little bitter-sweet. But I do enjoy having my house back to normal, with the toys in the playroom instead of in the living room. I can hardly wait to start planning for next Christmas. This year I had everything bought and wrapped by Dec 5th, but next Christmas I want to have everything done by the first and just do last minute wrapping and baking. I should shop all year for Christmas like my Mom does, instead of starting in November. I want the cost to be spread out a bit next year. Although, I did get most of the kids' clothes and a few toys for Christmas at garage sales, which I will do again for sure.
We had a very busy Christmas Eve and Day. Christmas Eve we attended a Christmas Eve service at our church here in town, although I spent most of the time out in the foyer with Saray as she wouldn't sit still (which doesn't surprise me). Then we headed out to my parents for dinner and a visit from Santa. Joshua was more interested in Santa's beard then the present Santa was trying to give him. Saray, on the other hand, wasn't so sure about the man in the red suit; from a distance she was a fine, but when it was her turn to receive a gift, she cried and screamed. However, she does know what Santa says, and proudly shares her knowledge. Christmas Day we had a small Christmas here at our place, then we headed out to my parents house for the day. Saray and Joshua would have been happy with just one gift, as it seemed that the whole "many presents at once" just overwhelmed them. We cut our day short as the snow was coming down and blowing around quite wildly. We really didn't want to get snowed in at my parents (would have been fun for awhile, but home is better, especially with little kids). By the end of the blizzard, we ended up with over 2 feet of snow here in Spearfish, and drifts were much higher (5 to 8 ft) in some areas.
Hope you all had a great Christmas! Happy New Year!
It’s so hard to believe that Christmas is only 10 days away; where has the time gone? Last time I posted picture of the twins was the first part of November (besides Saray’s haircut). Man, some seasons are just super busy and this is one of those seasons. With any spare moment I have, I’ve been wrapping gifts or trying to find the energy to bake the many different kinds of cookies that we generally bake. I have also been spending a lot of time taking pictures of the twins, as I have far too many pictures to post on one single blog (which is why I decided to a photo album for you instead).
The twins are changing and growing with each passing week, I can see it in their faces. I am not sure how to capture who they are in writing as they are so full of so much. Maybe you’ll catch a glimpse of who they are just by looking at the photos.
Saray is full of energy and control; she likes to control and she likes a chance to try things (ex: trying to vacuum with the dust buster). She is in the business of taking every toy, or chair or anything from Joshua. I am trying to help her with sharing and letting Joshua have his turn, but wow, it’s difficult for all of us. She is also very loving; she gives Joshua kisses at night and sometimes will offer Joshua a blanket or an animal she currently has.
Joshua is such a content, easy-going little boy. He has more patience with Saray then I do. He rarely puts up a fuss about a toy or chair being taken over by Saray. What a kid. He is finally starting to become a little confident on his own two legs, has started standing on his own more and more. Walking maybe not be that far out(my guess is still 18 months…). He is never in a hurry. He is so easy to take places; yesterday Jer, Joshua and I (Saray got to stay with Molly and celebrate Molly’s b’day) had to make a trip to Rapid City cause Joshua had a follow up appt with Dr. Bryson (the Urologist). We were gone all day, and he fussed maybe 5 minutes total. He was a little Champ.
Oh and I am sure you want to know how my pregnancy is going…all is well. I will be 18 weeks along tomorrow (Wed). I’ve been feeling the baby move a little every day since week 16. We’ll have our 20 week ultrasound done the week after Christmas. We do plan on finding out if this little one is a boy or a girl. I am finally starting to feel better and the energy is slowing starting to return (but it’s always gone by the evening, even if I take a nap in the morning while the kids nap).
We wish you all a Merry Christmas! JESUS is the REASON for the SEASON…for all seasons.
I have been making a list this past week of all that I am thankful for (and my list is still growing). It's so easy to forget to be thankful and it's also easy to forget what we're thankful for, that is why it's so good to remind ourselves, not just at Thanksgiving, but all the time.
A few things I am thankful for:
My Savior Jesus Christ who gave his life for me and who has a love for me that I will never fully comprehend.
My dear Husband, Jeremiah, who comes home after a long day at work and proceeds to help me with the kids...what a blessing he is.
Joshua and Saray - what joy they bring to my life. I think the joy may be a little richer due to the long wait.
Baby #3 - What a sweet surprise! We're glad to have you apart of our family.
Our families (Culvers, Pojars & McMahans) - we're blessed to have such a LARGE, caring family.
Friends - thank you for loving and sharing your lives with us.
That is just a handful of things I am thankful for...my heart truly is overflowing with blessing and thankfulness.
We hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving! And remember to give thanks, not just during this Thanksgiving season.
Saray had developed a bad habit (to her it's a comfort thing), she would twirl her hair (only on one side) while going down for a nap or for the night. But instead of untwisting her hair, she'd pull it out. After a few weeks of doing this, she started to look a little funny with a large very thin spot on left hand side of her head. Jer and I really didn't want to have to cut her hair, but after much fighting with her habit and will, we gave in and took the clippers to her head. I almost cried!
She actually thought it tickled! Silly girl!
Haircut after dinner..
She still is super cute, even if her hair is super short. At least hair grows back. I am just hoping that by the time it does grow back, that she'll be over the twirling and pulling habit. What a girl....she keeps us on our toes.
I had another check up this past Wednesday (Nov 4th); I was surprised to find out that we were having another ultrasound, but super happy since I get to take a peek at our little one. I am doing well and Baby #3 is alive and well (such a relief, especially after 3 miscarriages). Baby was moving its little arms and legs as if showing off just for us. It almost always bring a tear to my eye when I hear the little heartbeat (heart rate was 166bpm). I am just amazed at the gift of life that God gives; every moment of each life truly is a blessing and we need to treasure each and every moment.
It's hard to believe that I'm already in the 12th week of this pregnancy, it almost doesn't seem possible. In some ways I feel as though I was pregnant with Joshua and Saray just yesterday. Part of me wonders how things will progress with this pregnancy...I am believing and praying for the best and I know God's hand truly is upon me and this little one.
Well, October is over and a new month has begun; this is my absolutely favorite season. Planning and decorating will be a bit interesting this year. How in the world do you put up a tree with a set of twins wanting to explore every inch of the glowing tree standing in the living room? I have a little over 3 weeks to figure it out.
Saray has just taken off with the walking thing this past week; she was walking off and on for the last month but just converted from crawling to walking. What a transition that is for her and us! She is showing signs of independence in all areas; she wants to wear her vest that is hanging in her closet, or she wants to wear a certain hat, or a certain necklace of mine. She is really starting to express likes in things she wears,. She's becoming a little girl right before my eyes. She also has a way of telling me what she wants to eat (if she can see it); she'll point at the yogurt melts and then sign please. She also pointed at a whole apple I was washing the other day and signed apple and please. I was a little hesitated to give her a whole apple, but she managed to eat 3/4 of the large apple for lunch. Amazing and I believe me I was quite shocked!
Saray just got tooth number seven and is working on number 8...
Joshua is hilarious with his signing, he studies your hands very closely and mimics very well. His latest thing is blowing kisses, he'll blow a kiss, but instead of actually making the smacking noise by kissing his hand, he clicks his tongue to make the smacking noise. Hilarious! The other day a friend of mine was visiting, she was telling Joshua that she liked his sweater, and without missing a beat (or having to be told) he signed "Thank you". Smart kid!
In the last month Joshua has become a little champ with eating solids (finally!!). He'll eat any table food now and has pretty much given up on baby food. He was eating some solids, but, was spitting food out at every meal (very annoying). Having both Josh and Saray off baby food makes life just that much easier for me. Although, I still haven't been able to sit down and eat breakfast with them. Soon enough. Joshua has shown no real signs up wanting to walk on his own (although he does enjoy cruising furniture and trying to keep up with Saray) but that really doesn't surprise me. He has been a late bloomer in just about everything, from lifting his head, to sitting up, to crawling. I am guessing that he'll be interested in walking in a few months. My bet is 18 months (which is totally in the normal range). I am realizing that each baby (even twins) has a different time table for EVERYTHING. And I am learning to be okay with that, even if every book and website says "Your baby should be doing this...blah blah blah". We are not robots.
Joshua is working on tooth 10, his second molar. The molars are HUGE and take so much longer to come through.
Nothing new on Baby #3 (I have an appt tomorrow.). I am currently 12 weeks along -yay! This pregnancy has been going well and I have some energy, most days. Morning sickness kinda comes and goes as it pleases; waves of nausea hit me most while changing the twins' stinky diapers. I am hoping that morning sickness will soon become just a faint memory, once again. I have developed a little bump already (no shock to me). I still haven't taken any pictures of the developing bump, but when I do, I promise to post.
It's still pretty hard for me to imagine what life will be like with twins and an infant. All I can say, I am super thankful that I had the twins first. Having one baby after having two babies will seem easy (so to speak).
Saray loves cars and bikes
Joshua and Saray jamming on the keyboard
Joshua loves playing at Gma and Gpa Culver's house
Saray walking all over
Joshua getting a ride on the car by Daddy
Snuggling the duck with Daddy
Saray tries to fit into everything, including tupperware
